Sugar dating has become more like a financial industry especially with the rise of dating sites on the internet. I have been in the "business" for pretty much all of my 20s. So, I feel like I've raked up a lot of experience. Enough to pass around for the benefit of anyone looking to become a sugar baby or sugar daddy for that matter. Browsing through the internet, I can't help but notice the nosy queries about sugar babies and sugar daddies. Not that I'm offended or anything. If anything, I'm one proud sugar baby and I wear my title like a badge of honor. Allow me to share my sugar baby experience hoping that it will inspire some newbies trying to make it in a sugar daddy site.
Needless to say, starting off as a sugar baby is not a walk in the park. I mean, it is not something you just wake up one morning and decide you're going to be a sugar baby. In my case, I have to say it was fairly easy in today's standards. I started off with an account in an exclusive sugar dating site. My account was straight to the point. I like older males. I figured it would be in my best interest to save my visitors the trouble of trying to find out what I'm interested in. And, look at me now. It all worked in my favor. It's been slightly over half a decade and I have had a hell of a sugar baby experience. One that I cannot regret even for a second.
Right from the beginning, I made it crystal clear that I am interested in older men. I don't know if it's just me but older men appreciate boldness a lot more than we think. Looking back, I feel that going straight to the point and being bold on my profile was my actual breakthrough. And, the best part is I wasn't under any sort of pressure to conform to any standards. I just had to be myself.
My success on a sugar daddy site was not an overnight sensation. It was not easy getting to live by my ground rules at first but then I got the hang of it. If you are planning on making easy money off of older men on sugar daddy sites, then you should know it is not easy. I had to make a lot of compromises on my ground rules and ideals.
It would be rather overambitious to think that you'll start making money right away. It didn't take painfully long for me to start getting the financial benefits that every sugar baby looks forward to. I actually got paid on my first date. But, I attribute this to the way I set up my profile in the sugar daddy site. Again, older men have a higher level of financial stability. This is not something that can be said about younger men.
Most sugar daddies have lots of demands, some of which may sound too ambitious. I once met a sugar daddy who wanted me to sleepover on the first date. This was definitely against my "ground rules." Well, that date didn't go so well but I do not regret it. My safety comes first. I would rather lose a date than put my safety to jeopardy. After all, you can always get another sugar daddy but you cannot get another life.
Ripping the benefits goes both ways. While the sugar daddy wants to draw a cookie from the cookie jar, the sugar baby wants to make some cash. The more I think about the transactional nature of sugar dating, the less I feel guilty of being a sugar baby.
Many people wonder if there's the right time to hand him the cookie. Well, my answer has always been no right time. It all depends on what you are comfortable with. We both know what we are getting into. So, we might as well jump right into it. But, it is always advisable to consider safety and integrity. Personally, I feel safer when my sugar daddy knows what I want before making his demands. If he is okay with satisfying my needs, I don't see why I shouldn't do the same for him.
I have more than one sugar daddy and I have never been in a position where I have been unable to offer my services to them. I think my ability to juggle between multiple sugar daddies depends on the number and the kind of arrangements you have with each one of them. It is in my best interest to find a way to serve all of them in a satisfactory manner.
It is a good idea to have just enough sugar daddies to meet your needs. Having so many of them can be overwhelming. I have friends who have tapped out of the sugar baby business because they couldn't keep up a large number of sugar daddies and their requests. The only benefit of many sugar daddies is that you get to make more money than a sugar baby with just one sugar daddy. However, in my case, I have two sugar daddies who pay so well I don't feel any kind of deprivation. One pays in the form of allowances while the other one pays per date.
Honestly speaking, this is a difficult question but I will answer it this way; yes and no. sugar dating makes actual dating a little more difficult but not entirely impossible. In my case, I am only a part-time sugar baby and I assume this is the kind of arrangement that would work for most aspiring sugar babies. With this kind of arrangement, I get time to live my life the normal way, which means I can have a boyfriend.
I don't need to tell you that having a boyfriend makes me feel like a cheat. More often than not, I feel like I'm being dishonest to my boyfriend. Of course, I am not just going to tell him that I am seeing an older man. That would break him into pieces. Some might argue that sugar dating is a profession like any other and that it should not get in the way of one's love life. Well, in my experience, it has been entirely difficult to have a boyfriend despite the fact that I am a part-time sugar baby. I just can't multitask when it comes to actual dating.
Judging from my sugar baby experience, you can see for yourself that it is not a walk in the park and it's not a bad profession either. The excitement of getting paid to hang out with someone older than a typical boyfriend has made everyone want to become a sugar baby. If you can take anything from my experience, then let it be the need to tread with a lot of care when looking for a profession in sugar daddy site. It is both exciting and dangerous and you owe it to yourself to tread carefully.
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